It takes a long time to know people’s love for you.
People’s dispositions can be deceitful, but suppressed emotions cannot hide for long, especially during difficult times.
Specifically, during these three periods, no matter how pretentious he or she may be, you will notice his real feelings and wishes toward you.
- When you Are In Trouble
In this world, what often gives people the most confidence and sense of security is companionship and attention.
No matter what obstacles you encounter, it is great to know there is someone behind you to support you, and you have shoulders to cry on. This kind of down-to-earth love is what everyone yearns for.
Difficulties and trials are the touchstones of a relationship.
A person who truly loves you, when you are traumatized and sad, will stand by your side without hesitation, open his arms actively, and give you comfort and tenderness.
When you are wronged or bullied, he or she will stand on the same side as you, stand up for you, and safeguard your interests and dignity.
This kind of love has the power of healing and redemption – making people to feel at ease.
A person who does not have you at heart will only keep silent, ignore you, or indiscriminately accuse you of over-reacting. Such a person may not care about your feelings at all.
When you look at relationships this way, the difference between love and hatred is obvious.
- When You Quarrel
In relationships, it is never a shame to give in to love.
When two people are together, friction and conflicts are inevitable. Only the person who truly loves you can understand your emotions, tolerate your feelings, and be reluctant to make you sad.
In fact, how deeply a person loves you depends not on when the relationship is good, but on his attitude towards you when you have misunderstanding.
At this moment, it is easier to know a person’s heart and his true nature.
If the person reflects and understands why there is a conflict, and willing to make concessions for you, and be soft to you, it means that you are very important and there is love between you.
A person who does not care about you, no matter how deep you are apparently in love, will turn away and throw reasons to the wind when there is misunderstanding.
Either he or she will give you cold shoulders, or poke your pains more and engage you in sordid invectives.
Such a person who does not care about your feelings, to put it bluntly, is selfish and loves you not.
- When He Faces Temptation
True Love Is Unique.
How one feels towards another depends on whether the person is wavering or firm in the face of external temptations.
There are indeed many temptations in this world, but people who have love, principles, and a sense of responsibility in their hearts will always remind themselves to keep a clear mind.
One who is devoted to you will never see other women or men. The person will restrain his or her body, guard his or her heart, and will not do anything to betray or hurt you.
No matter how many opposing voices from outside, no matter what kind of temptations, he or she will stand by your side and never leave you.
A man or woman who cannot stand temptation is not firm in love, and will not have successful married life or relationship.
It will be clearly his or her fault, but they will arrogate it to temptation, blame each other for not showing understanding.
No matter the reason, in the final analysis, there is no enough love hence the bickering or quarrelling.
You don’t have to always ask a partner whether he loves you or not. People’s hearts can be seen over time. In fact, the answer is hidden in time and details.